Actress and singer Shruti Haasan has long been candid about her relationships, a refreshing trait in the often-guarded world of celebrity. This openness, however, has also subjected her to intrusive questions, particularly regarding her romantic history. In a recent interview, Haasan addressed the recurring query of “Which number boyfriend is this?” with her characteristic blend of forthrightness and emotional intelligence.
Speaking to a leading entertainment portal, Haasan acknowledged the frequent scrutiny she faces concerning her love life. Instead of bristling at the question, she offered a thoughtful perspective on what such inquiries truly represent. “When people say, ‘Which number of boyfriend is this?’, they don’t understand that for them it’s a number, for me it is the number of times that I have failed at having the love I want,” she stated, revealing a vulnerability often masked by her confident persona.
Haasan’s past relationships, including those with actor Michael Corsale and visual artist Santanu Hazarika, have been public knowledge. While these relationships didn’t culminate in long-term commitment, the actress refuses to view them as mere statistics. For her, each relationship was a genuine attempt at finding lasting love, and their endings represent personal disappointments rather than notches on a belt.
Interestingly, Haasan doesn’t harbor resentment towards her former partners. “I don’t blame my partners because we aren’t wired to change the same way at the same time, it isn’t possible,” she explained, showcasing a mature understanding of the complexities inherent in romantic relationships. This perspective highlights her belief that incompatibility, rather than fault, often leads to separation.
While she maintains a no-regrets stance on her past choices, Haasan admitted to a touch of sadness stemming from the repeated setbacks in her quest for love. “So, I don’t feel bad about it…but I feel a little bad. Of course, I’m human,” she confessed, underscoring the emotional toll of failed relationships, regardless of one’s public image.
Furthermore, Haasan reflected on the lessons learned from her experiences. “My relationships have been my biggest life lessons,” she asserted, suggesting that each romantic entanglement has contributed to her personal growth and understanding of herself and her needs in a partnership.
When questioned about whether her professional success might intimidate potential partners, Haasan offered a grounded response. “No, I don’t think so. That’s not what I am in my private life,” she clarified, implying a distinction between her public persona and her personal interactions.
In a poignant moment, Haasan also touched upon the inevitable hurt caused during breakups. “I have hurt some people and I wish I didn’t do that,” she admitted, revealing a sense of empathy and accountability for the impact of her decisions on others. “Everything else, I have like zero regrets. I’m like, okay, I was a clown, it’s fine. Just some people that were very valuable to me, I hurt them by mistake and I always now spend my time saying sorry for it.”
Shruti Haasan’s candid and mature response to the often-insensitive question about her relationship history serves as a reminder that behind the celebrity facade are real individuals with genuine emotions and experiences. Her willingness to speak openly about her vulnerabilities and lessons learned offers a refreshing perspective on love, loss, and personal growth in the public eye.